Doug's Diversions
Monday, February 16, 2026
Adventures in Latin America
Saturday, February 14, 2026
A Valentine's Wish
I can’t forget thee now.
In happier days I saw thee fram
(sic)
Across
my lonely way;
Thy life became the morning
dream
That
tells of coming day;
Full long in that bright dream I
dwelt
With
gay unclouded brow;
Ah! Me, the bliss of heaven I
felt,
And
can’t forget thee now.
The gloom of fate’s unpitying
frown
Is
on my spirit cast
My star in darkness has gone
down,
My
best of life is past;
But though the seas overwhelm me
quite.
And
hid my sinking prow-
I love thee mid this awful
night,
And
can’t forget thee now.
Though other charms may brightly
woo,
My
heart to feel their power,
And other hearts may bless them,
too,
In
youth’s warm passionate hour,
On me their rays shall gently
fall,
Nor
will I breathe one vow
To those – to thine – I gave
them all,
And
can’t to other now.
“Valentine”
Winfield, VA - Feby: 14th 1857
Not being an expert on poetry or on the style or significance of such a poem, I asked AI Co-Pilot for a little context by asking: "What might be lost on us today in the contents of this Valentine note from 1857?"
Here is its reply.
1. This is not casual affection — it’s dangerously earnest
Victorian courtship culture treated romantic declarations as morally weighty. A note like this wasn’t “cute.” It was closer to a vow, almost a proto‑engagement gesture.
To say: “I can’t forget thee now.” was not wistful; it was binding.
He’s essentially saying: My heart is already pledged, and I cannot undo it. That level of emotional exposure would have been understood as serious, even risky.
2. The language of “fate,” “gloom,” and “darkness” is standard Victorian melodrama
To us it reads like someone being dramatic. To them, this was the expected emotional register of romantic poetry.
Mid‑century sentimental literature leaned heavily on:
fate, stars, storms, sinking ships, heaven and bliss, unpitying destiny
These weren’t exaggerations; they were the grammar of love.
3. The nautical metaphor (“my sinking prow”) was instantly recognizable
A “prow” is the forward-most part of a ship. To say it is sinking is to say:
my life is going under, I am overwhelmed, I am losing direction.
Victorian readers were steeped in maritime imagery — shipwrecks, storms, and voyages were common metaphors for emotional states.
Today, we might read it as oddly dramatic. In 1857, it was a familiar emotional shorthand.
4. “Other charms may brightly woo” is a moral statement, not just a romantic one
He’s not simply saying he’s not interested in other women. He’s declaring moral fidelity.
In that era: A man’s constancy was a measure of his character. To “breathe one vow” to another woman would be dishonorable. Declaring exclusive affection was a public claim of integrity.
This is a virtue statement, not just a love statement.
5. “Valentine” as a signature was normal — and strategic
Signing simply “Valentine” was a common practice. It allowed: plausible deniability; a socially acceptable veil of anonymity; a way to express affection without violating propriety
Courtship was heavily supervised. A man could not always openly declare interest without risking scandal. A Valentine allowed him to say what he could not say aloud.
6. The emotional arc is one of lost hope, not new love
This is not a “please love me” poem. It’s a “you were my hope, and now I am undone” poem.
He writes as someone who believes: the relationship is impossible; his life’s “star” has gone down; he is resigned to sorrow; but he remains faithful
This is the emotional register of romantic tragedy, not flirtation.
7. The setting — Winfield, VA, 1857 — adds a layer we feel but don’t name
This is pre‑Civil War Virginia. People lived with: uncertainty; economic fragility; looming national conflict; strict social codes around marriage and class
A love that could not be fulfilled was not uncommon. The poem’s fatalism would have felt realistic, not theatrical.
Well - the good news is that despite the fatalism and temporary loss of hope. Their love endured. They married in 1863 and remained married until her death in 1920 a couple months before their 57th wedding anniversary.
Saturday, January 24, 2026
American Revolution - Journalistic Bias
Boston Massacre - by Paul Revere
In the current celebration of the 250th anniversary of our United States and the polarized environment today where one news source says one thing and the other says exactly the opposite, I asked Co-Pilot AI to create a couple of fictitious news articles assuming one source to be Loyalist leaning and the other to be Patriot leaning. This is simultaneously instructive, entertaining, and foreboding. The more things change the more they stay the same.
Loyalist News Source
BOSTON — March 6, 1770 Tensions in Boston reached a tragic climax last night when an unruly mob of colonists confronted a small detachment of His Majesty’s soldiers, resulting in several civilian deaths. British officials are urging calm and calling for a full investigation, emphasizing that the soldiers were provoked, surrounded, and acting in self‑defense.
Eyewitnesses loyal to the Crown report that the crowd—many of them known agitators aligned with radical groups like the Sons of Liberty—were throwing snow, ice, clubs, and insults at the soldiers stationed outside the Customs House. As the mob pressed closer, witnesses say the soldiers feared for their lives.
Captain Thomas Preston, who was present at the scene, maintains that no order to fire was given, and that the shots were discharged only after the crowd escalated the violence. Loyalist commentators warn that colonial radicals are already attempting to politicize the tragedy, using it to inflame anti‑British sentiment and undermine lawful authority.
British officials stress that the troops were stationed in Boston to maintain order after months of harassment, vandalism, and tax resistance. They caution colonists not to rush to judgment and to remember that law and stability depend on respect for the Crown’s peacekeeping forces.
Patriot News Source
BOSTON — March 6, 1770 The streets of Boston are in mourning today after British soldiers opened fire on unarmed colonists, killing five and wounding several others in what residents are calling a brutal and unjustified attack.
Witnesses describe a tense but nonviolent gathering outside the Customs House, where townspeople had assembled to protest the ongoing military occupation of their city. The presence of armed Redcoats—sent by Parliament to enforce unpopular taxes—has long been a source of fear and resentment among Bostonians.
According to multiple colonists at the scene, the soldiers responded to verbal criticism with loaded muskets, escalating a street dispute into a deadly confrontation. Many insist that the troops fired without provocation, and that the massacre reveals the true nature of British rule: coercive, unaccountable, and indifferent to colonial lives.
Patriot leaders, including Samuel Adams, are demanding immediate justice and calling the event a turning point in the struggle for colonial rights. They argue that as long as British troops occupy American streets, no colonist is safe.
Residents gathered today at Faneuil Hall to mourn the victims and to reaffirm their commitment to resisting tyranny. The names of the dead—Crispus Attucks, Samuel Gray, James Caldwell, Samuel Maverick, and Patrick Carr—are already becoming symbols of the growing movement for liberty.
Monday, December 29, 2025
American Revolution - Tavern Talk
In my early days, we seldom ate outside our homes - but if we did it would be at a restaurant that did not serve alcohol - typically diners, buffets, or fast-food places. With no more than two or three exceptions, it would not be until I was an adult before I ate in a restaurant that had a bar in it.
Doctor Benjamin Rush produced his assessment of alcohol in An Inquiry into the Effects of Ardent Spirits in 1794. This work in some ways led to the formation of the American Temperance Society in 1826. The influence of this movement took hold in many Christian fellowships as groups like the Woman's Christian Temperance Union was formed in 1874 that tied temperance to Christian principals. Scriptures like Ephesians 5:18 that says, "...be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess, but be filled with the Spirit" and Proverbs 23 which describes the dangerous allure of alcohol were used to connect alcohol consumption to unchristian behavior.
These associations were not always true as is evident from my fourth great-grandfather, Timothy Bates, who in the early 19th Century was a Christian minister and a distiller of whiskey - sometimes holding worship services in his distillery with a whiskey barrel serving as a pulpit. About a hundred years later, in 1920, the United States banned consumable alcohol for the good of its people. So, a few decades after that experiment was repealed, words like Pub, Bar, or Tavern were still synonymous with places good Christians should not frequent. Yet to Colonial America - the very world that shaped the early American church - taverns were indispensable.
Colonial America, Taverns were the hub of social activity. At a tavern you could get food, a drink, a warm fire, and often a bed and a stable for your horse. Not only that you could get the news from the next county or from the big cities. Newspapers were shared. Political discussions would abound. Business transactions would be made. Taverns were the place to have your mail sent a picked up. The local tavern was the place to see and be seen.
Taverns often had rooms set aside for meetings. Committees of Safety would often meet there to discuss the needs for and of local militia and Committees of Correspondence would meet to determine how to maintain communication. In 1783, the Confederation Congress fled Philadelphia for fear that British forces would arrest them. They reconvened in Trenton, New Jersey at the French Arms Tavern.
We still gather — but rarely in the same room, hearing the same news, sharing the same fire. The tavern once held a community together. Today, our conversations scatter across screens and platforms, and the shared civic hearth has grown dim. The Colonial tavern, once indispensable, has become a relic of a time gone by.
Saturday, December 20, 2025
Genealogy - Antebellum Ambrotype
It is fascinating - the smallest details are the first to disappear. We assume everyone knows what we know, until suddenly no one does. So, write things down. Tell the stories. Label photographs. Even the unimportant things matter, because they are the connections that keep a family’s history from slipping into silence.
Tuesday, December 9, 2025
American Revolution - Independent Green Mountain Boys!
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Happy Thanksgiving - Pollo y Papas
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